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(Romans 14:10-12) Oh Be Careful Little Feet

(Romans 14:10-12) Oh Be Careful Little Feet

Ref: Romans 14:10–12

Paul did not commend the church at Corinth for being tolerant; he rebuked them for being arrogant! Likewise, Stephen cautions us to be careful with our theology and practice lest we fall into error as well.

The other messages in this series are available here: Grey Matters


“Oh Be Careful Little Feet”

Romans 14:10-12

In light of our discussion on debatable and divisive grey issues within the church, I have received a number of interesting responses and illustrations of division over non-essentials.

It’s a good thing to remember the words of one man who said it this way:

            In essentials, unity;

            In non-essentials, liberty;

            In all things, charity.

I’m not sure who exactly said that – I’ve seen the quote attributed to 3 different men – so it’s a rather divisive issue – but let’s not fight over it – somebody said it – and it’s worth repeating:


            In essentials, unity;

            In non-essentials, liberty;

            In all things, charity.

One of the men in our church sent me this little story regarding the division over singing choruses or hymns.  I thought it was very interesting.

An old farmer went to the city one weekend and attending the big city church.  He came home and his wife asked him how it was.  “Well,” said the farmer, “it was good.  They did something different, though.  They sang praise choruses instead of hymns.”

“Praise choruses?” asked the wife.  “What are those?”

“Oh, they’re okay . . . they’re sort of like hymns, only different,” the farmer said.

“Well, what’s the difference?” asked his wife.

The farmer explained, “Well, it’s like this.  If I were to say to you, ‘Martha, the cows are in the corn,’ that would be a hymn. 

If, on the other hand, I were to say to you, “Martha, Martha, Martha, Oh Martha, Martha Martha, the cows, the big cows, the brown cows, the black cows, the white cows, the cows, the COWS, the COWS, COWS, COWS, are in the corn, corn, corn, they’re in the coooooorrrrrnnnnnn.”  Then, I repeated it three times, that would be a praise chorus.

Wouldn’t you know it, that farmer’s little church had a visitor from the big city church that same Sunday.  He went home to his wife and she asked him how it went.

He said, “Oh, it was okay, except they don’t sing choruses – they sing hymns.”

She asked, “What’s a hymn?”

He said, “Well, it’s like a chorus, only different?”

She said, “What do you mean, different?”

He explained, “Well, if I said to you, Martha, the cows are in corn – but say it like this:

Oh Martha, dear, Martha, hear the words of my mouth,

Turn thou thy whole wondrous ear to this glorious truth;

For the way of the animals who can explain;

There in their heads is no shadow of sense,

Hearkenest they in God’s sun or his rain,

Unless from the mild corn they are fenced;

Yea those cows in glad, rebellious delight,

Have loosed their shackles, their warm pens eschew,

Yea goaded by minions of darkness and night,

They all my sweet corn are now destined to chew.

Martha, look to that bright day when earth is reborn,

And I shall not see those cows in my corn.

That would be a hymn! 

I’m glad to hear some of you laughing . . . which is further proof that a balanced music program is intended by God to both educate and irritate the entire church.

The truth is, grey matters are rarely laughing matters.

Go all the way back to 1700’s – to the days of Jonathan Edwards

and the debates over music in the church. There were two controversies – one controversy surrounded whether or not everyone should sing together or not.  We today have a song leader who keeps us all singing together and the instruments keep us on the same pitch and in the same key.  In those days everyone often started when they wanted in the key they wanted and sort of sung their own way through the lyrics.  The other controversy was whether or not women could sing at the same time as the men.  Would they be violating their place of submission to sing alongside of their husbands?

Think about that!  When David came up here and led us in singing together, all at the same time and, for most of us, in the same key, had it been the 1700’s, he would have been doing something highly controversial.

Ever since the Pharisees were challenged by the Lord for teaching their traditions as doctrine (Mark 7:5-8), we have been dividing and arguing and splitting over methods and mannerisms and mechanics and minutia, while at the same time, failing at what matters.

The Apostle Paul writes to the church at Rome, deeply divided over issues of lifestyle and liberty.

And he will both irritate and educate the entire church.

In Romans 14, we discovered in our last session that Paul had delivered a rather shocking guideline for determining what to do in grey areas – areas where the Bible was silent or inconclusive.  Not matters of doctrine, but matters of lifestyle; this was not a debate over belief, but behavior.

He wrote in 5b.  Let each man be fully convinced in his own mind.  He who observes the day, observes it for the Lord, and he who eats, does so for the Lord.

Now mind you, Paul is talking about the incredibly controversial subject of the Sabbath and eating meat offered to idols.

These were actually more important issues that whether or not we should sing at the same time or in the same key.

But Paul gave the guidelines – two of them: are you surrendered to the Lord as a priority and, secondly, are you giving thanks to the Lord as a practice.

Now in verse 10, he goads us all into remembering something more that really matters.

Notice, “But you, why do you judge your brother?  Or you again, why do you regard your brother with contempt?

Do you see a word that appears twice in that text?  You ought to circle it – it’s the word, brother.

This is a family matter.

We are separating from family members over issues colored in grey – traditions we are desperately trying to define as doctrine.

And the church is against the church.

In our last study, I told you about Spurgeon and Parker – two well known London preachers who exchanged pulpits at times and enjoyed fellowship together until Spurgeon criticized Spurgeon for smoking his cigars and Spurgeon, in turn, criticized Parker for attending the theatre.  They broke off their fellowship, if not their friendship.

In another event, when D. L. Moody, America’s most famous pastor/evangelist, was visiting Spurgeon and preaching for him, they got into a little tiff that was widely reported when Moody asked Spurgeon when was he going to give up those awful cigars?  And Spurgeon pointed a finger into Moody’s considerable midsection and said, “When you get rid of this.”

I use that example to remind us all that even great men of faith can bicker and argue and even divide over issues far less significant that the issues facing the Romans.

The entire nation of Jews had built their worship on the Sabbath day – on kosher diets.  The Gentiles had left their lives of idolatry and wanted nothing more to do with the temples, while others didn’t see anything wrong with eating non-kosher meat offered to idols – right out of the temple.

And they were at each other’s throats.

And Paul says in verse 10, “You!  Stop condemning your brother!” “You, stop looking down on your brother with contempt!”

As if to say, “what good does it do?” 

  • What church is more unified after an argument over hymns and choruses? 
  • What church experiences unity as it advances the cause of Christ because it used only a piano and an organ – or no instruments at all? 
  • What group of believers was ever edified over the color of the carpet or the methods of evangelism – starting with the law or starting with the cross of Christ; in the home or on the street corner; confrontational or lifestyle?
  • What group of believers glorified God in the marketplace by refusing to wear make-up or choosing to wear their hair short – or long – or with long curly sideburns – or beards – or no beards – mustaches only?

I remember as a teenager the heated debate in the church was over long-hair on guys.  And what was considered too much hair.  Now, I’d like to grow hair.


  • What church is strengthened by arguing over schooling choices – at home, taught by the mother; at home, taught by the father and the mother; at home, with a few classes co-opted out; or entirely outside the home in a public school or perhaps in a Christian school?  Which is it?  Paul would give the answer in Romans 14 – “Make up your mind . . . and then do it as unto the Lord with thanksgiving.” 

Oh how we love to compare and compete and criticize and command.

Paul writes in Romans 14:4, “Who are you to judge your [brother]? and then effectively in verse 10.  “Don’t judge your brother . . . why do you regard your brother with contempt.”

You say, is it right to ever judge anyone for anything?


The New Testament makes it clear that we are to make several judgments – let me give you four of them:

First, we are to judge unrepentant transgressors.

In I Corinthians 5 Paul rebuked the church in Corinth for refusing to remove an unrepentant man from their midst when he wrote, “It is actually reported that there is immorality among you . . . you have become arrogant, and have not mourned instead, in order that the one who had done this deed might be removed from your midst.  For I, on my part, though absent in body, but present in spirit, have already judged him who has so committed this.”

Paul said, “I have already judged him.”

It’s interesting that Paul did not commend them for being tolerant, he rebuked them for being arrogant.  They thought they knew better than God.  They thought they were smarter than God’s prudish demand for monogamy and fidelity.  

So Paul demanded that they judge this unrepentant man and removed him from their fellowship.

Secondly, we are told to judge not only unrepentant transgressors but false teachers.

Teachers with false doctrine.

Without a doubt, our culture and the church at large is resisting more and more the notion of theological absolutes.

Doctrine is considered too dogmatic . . . to divisive.

Lay aside doctrine and unite in love.  Let’s just worship God and not bother with the attributes of God – like justice and mercy, wrath and love.

That may be politically correct, but it is unbiblical to the core.

In fact, what is politically correct is often times biblically corrupt!

Paul wrote in the last chapter of Romans – Romans chapter 16 – we’ll get there soon – in fact, I believe we’ll be there next year, so be patient – Paul writes in verse 17.  Now I urge you brethren, keep your eye on those who cause dissension and hindrances contrary to the teaching which you learned, and turn away from them.

In other words, don’t unite in love if they deny sound doctrine.

How far can the church stray from that simple guideline? 

One major Protestant denomination is publicly wrestling with the issue of homosexual ordination.  One of their homosexual leaders was elevated to Bishop – for the first time in their church’s history; an openly active Protestant homosexual now serves in the highest echelon of this church tradition.  One of his colleagues who tried to settle the firestorm spoke at an annual meeting of his denomination, trying to keep the denomination from splintering and dividing said in his speech , “If the church must make a choice between heresy and schism (or division), we must always choose heresy.”

Citation from Chuck Colson’s column on

In other words, if sound doctrine brings division, abandon the scripture but stay together.

The Apostle Paul would judge them and warn us to stay away from them.l

Thirdly, we are to judge cultural trends

Paul wrote further to the Corinthians believers, “He who is spiritual judges all things.” (I Corinthians 2:15)

This text sort of covers everything else.

Paul writes, in light the wisdom of this world and the natural reason of man, the believer should always walk with alertness and spiritual wisdom, pursuing the mind of Christ.

Lastly, we are to judge our own testimony

I Corinthians 11 is filled with exhortations for the believer to judge himself and hold himself accountable to the pure standard of holy living.

Judge yourselves . . . make sure you’re not pulling the wool over your own eyes.

You see, Ladies and Gentlemen, Paul is not saying in Romans 14 that we shouldn’t judge anybody.  He isn’t saying to us, “Hey, go out and do whatever you want to do – and if anybody looks down on you, so what!”

What Paul is talking about in Romans 14 is judging one another on issues that are not related to doctrine, unrepentant sin or some other area that is clearly black and white.

That’s the difference between Biblical judging and simply being judgmental.

There’s a vast difference between being a critical thinker and being everybody’s critic.

He’s saying, in affect, stop being judgmental and critical toward one another over grey matters!

Why Paul?  Give me one good reason why I should stop?

Paul gives us the reason, in the latter part of verse 10.  For we shall all stand before the judgment seat of God.

Oh . . . that!

Paul says, “May I remind you who are judgmentally criticizing your brothers and sisters in contempt will one day be standing before Christ.

Think of it this way; you who are looking down on your brother, will one day be looking up at your sovereign Judge.”

If you want to circle a very convicting word – it shows up in my Bible, right in the middle of that last phrase, “for we shall all – there it is – all stand before the judgment seat of God.”

Everyone of us who claim to know Christ as our personal Lord and Savior - we all will stand before Him one day.

For those who don’t know Christ – they also have an appointment with God – another, entirely different judgment called the Great White Throne.  In Revelation chapter 20, that awful moment is recorded where all unbelievers will be given the guilty verdict and cast into eternal hell.

For those who know Christ – by the grace of God, through faith in the work of Christ alone, we also shall have an awesome moment where we will all stand before the Son of God, for the Father has delivered to Him the right of judgment (John 5:22).

When Paul described this moment to the Corinthians, he wrote, “For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ.”

Perhaps a wonderful text that speaks of the fullness of Christ’s deity – called Christos or Christ in 2 Corinthians 5:10 and theos, or God, in Romans 14:10.

Nevertheless, we shall all stand before the 2nd Person of the Godhead, the one who came to earth as Savior, but now sits in the heavens as the Judge of all things.

Paul calls that place the judgment seat – or the Bema.

What is this place?

The Greek word, bema, primarily means, “a step . . . a pace.”  It is translated in Acts 7:5 as a footprint . . . or a place for your feet.

W.E. Vine, Vines Expository Dictionary of Old & New Testament Words (Nelson, 1997), p. 612

It came to be used for foot-rooms, later changed to platforms – raised areas that were accessed by steps – places where you stood and spoke.

Later the word was used, in fact, during the time of Paul, as the raised platform upon which sat the Roman Tribunal – a place for judges who sat at the Bema – this raised platform – and rendered verdicts in these ancient courtrooms.

Some were in the open . . . some were in palaces or political offices.

The word bema is used for the seat of Pilate who judged the Lord in Matthew 27:19.  “For while he was sitting on the judgment seat, his wife sent to him, saying, “Have nothing to do with that righteous Man.”

There was the famous bema at Corinth where Gallio the Governor judged Paul – in fact, that bema still exists – I’ve seen pictures of it – with Gallio’s name clearly inscribed in the stonework.

When Paul said to these believers, “You’re going to stand one day before the Bema of God,” they immediately got the picture.

But wait, how can we stand before Christ as Judge – since He is already our Savior?

Let me tell you what the Judgment Seat is not!

First, it is not a place where your future will be decided.

The only people standing at the bema are believers.

Sin was judged in Christ on the cross, and because we stand in Christ who was already judged, we will never be condemned for our sins; He was condemned for us – 1 Peter 2:24 – And He Himself bore our sins in His body on the cross, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness; for by His wounds you were healed.

We will stand at the Judgment seat without fear of rejection for God has no more charges against those who trust in His son – those who belong to Him, and will allow no one else to bring charges against them – Romans 8:31-34

In Romans 8:1 – one of my favorite verses because of one little word – the word now . . . There is therefore now, no condemnation to them who are in Christ Jesus.

Not later . . . not, maybe . . . but now!!!

The Bema is not a place where your future is decided – your future has already been decided, that’s why you’ll be there.

Secondly, it is not a place where forgiveness will be determined.

You will stand there, not to be forgiven, but because you have been forgiven.

Listen to what God says about your settled state – And when you were dead in your transgressions . . . He made you alive together with Him, having forgiven us all our transgressions. (not some, but all)  Having canceled out the certificate of debt consisting of decrees – the record of all our sins which were – against us and which was hostile to us; and He has taken it out of the way, having nailed it to the cross (Colossians 2:13-14)

The Bema is not a place where our future is decided or our forgiveness is determined – that has already been granted and decided.

Forever . . . secure . . . now!  Now!

Then what is this place?

It is a personal one on one encounter with the Living Christ, where He will not judge your position in Him, but your performance for Him.

You are there because you are His bride . . . now, what kind of bride have we been.

What kind of sons land daughters of His Father – our Father – have we been?

What is the record of our footprints?

What kind of trail will He review?

It will be a place of great weeping . . . a place of great sorrow . . . a place of loss of reward that we could have had . . . it will be a place where we are confronted with what we missed; oh, but it will be a place of great joy and relief . . . a place of grace . . . a place of deepest love – for there is no deeper love than to offend Someone who loves you still.

Oh, but in the meantime,

Oh be careful little feet, where you go;

Oh be careful little feet, where you go;

For the Father up above, is looking down in love,

Oh be careful little feet, where you go.

What’s it gonna be like at the Bema?

Paul uses four illustrations or metaphors to describe this awesome encounter with Christ.

The first picture is a great, divine smelting furnace.

In I Corinthians Paul writes of this day – the judgment day for the believer at the Bema; Now if any man builds upon the foundation with gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, straw, each man’s work will become evident; for the day will show it, because it is to be revealed with fire; and the fire itself will test the quality of each man’s work.  14.  If any man’s work which he has built upon it remains, he shall receive a reward.  15.  If any man’s work is burned up, he shall suffer loss; but he himself shall be saved, yet so as through fire (I Corinthians 3:12-15)

The fire mentioned here is used elsewhere in scripture as the emblem of deity – “Our God is a consuming fire.”  This means the holiness of God.

Roy L. Laurin, First Corinthians: Where Life Matures (Kregel, 1987), p. 79

This is not a mild reference to a place of purgatory where we go to have our faults burned away over time.

This is a reference to that moment when we stand before God and have our lives evaluated by the agency of His purity and holiness and faithfulness.

What is it of our lives that was faithful and holy and pure?

What will stand the purifying gaze of our holy God?

Evidently there will be those who have nothing left – nothing of value – as if they have come through the fire, with nothing but their salvation intact. 


The Apostle John wrote that warning, “See to it that you do not forfeit your full reward.” (2 John 1:8)

So build your life – you get to choose the material.  Valuable things that would honor God, or worthless things that are trivial and earthly and self-centered.

Paul uses another image – not only a smelting furnace, but in our modern world we could refer to as a Supernatural X-Ray Machine.


A chapter later, Paul wrote to the Corinthians, Therefore do not go on passing judgment before the time, but wait until the Lord comes who will bring to light the things hidden in darkness and disclose the motives of men’s hearts (I Corinthians 4:1-4)

It isn’t the quantity of work for God, but the quality of the work.

It isn’t the magnificence of the task, but the motive of the heart.


Rewards at the Bema will have nothing to do with our position, or education . . . many dear saints, completely unknown to the world and perhaps hardly known to fellow believers, will receive reward after reward after reward from the Lord’s hands, because their works were purely motivated for his glory.

John MacArthur, First Corinthians (Moody Press, 1984), p. 102

Spurgeon put it this way:  Don’t hold back because you cannot preach in St. Paul’s Cathedral; be content to talk to one or two; you may cook in small pots as well as in big ones.  Little pigeons can carry great messages; even a little dog can bark at a thief, and wake up the master and save the house.

Robert J. Morgan, Nelson’s Complete Book of Stories (Thomas Nelson, 2000), p. 198

That is, unless the master has taken the little dog to the pound; where the dog can’t bark and warn the mean master and the thief comes and the master deserves to have everything stolen from him!  Isn’t that right?  I said last Sunday, I’m sure that Bassett hound was adopted.  My wife told me last Sunday after the sermon, “Honey, that story did not represent me or the children at all – we didn’t want to take the dog to the pound – only you did.”  It’s been a lonely week.

I remember spending the night in a beautiful hotel in India; so many people clamoring for our attention – we were having meetings – I was to preach in a rally – I have no idea how many people were there.  But back in that beautiful hotel – the maid who cleaned my room seemed to have such a countenance of joy.  I finally asked her in the hallway a question that she could have been reprimanded for answering.  I stopped her and said, “Ma’am, your smile – the countenance of your face – the way you’ve cleaned my room with such detail – I have to ask you –  in a world of Hindus, do you know Christ?”  And she immediately beamed and said, “Oh yes, I am a Christian.” 

She may never deliver the gospel to hundreds or thousands of people . . . she may not be known to a large body of believers . . . but she cleaned hotel rooms and you could just tell it was for the glory of God.

The Divine x-ray machine will reveal the motive of our hearts for everything we said and did, at the Bema seat.

Paul also pictures the Judgment Seat as an Award Ceremony

You need to understand that on these raised the platforms were the places the judges of the athletic contests were seated.

It was the place where the victorious athletes would stand to receive their crown – their laurel wreaths made of oak leaves.

For them, it would be the moment of a lifetime.

Paul wrote, “I have fought a good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith; in the future there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness – the stephanos – the laurel wreath of a victorious athlete – which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day! (2 Timothy 4:8)

We can watch Olympic winners even today mount a small platform – which harkens back to the ancient bema – watch their faces – see the tear brimming in their eyes – look at their joy and their honorable pride.

Paul and all the other Romans had undoubtedly seen the victorious athletes step up to the Bema and receive their crown – and Paul said, “I’m gonna be there one day – only this Bema will be the Bema of Living Lord.”

The Judgment Seat is Like a smelting furnace; it is like a  divine X-ray machine; it is like an awards ceremony; and finally, it is like a performance Review

Paul wrote to the Corinthians, “For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, that each one may be recompensed – paid back – for his deeds in the body, according to what he has done, whether good or bad.  You could translate that, “whether profitable or unprofitable.” (2 Corinthians 5:10)

It is not sin that is judged – it is service.

Paul wrote to the Romans in chapter 14 verse 12, “So then each one of us shall all give an account of himself to God.”

  • What kind of testimony did you have?
  • What was your work ethic?
  • How did you spend your money?
  • How did you serve the church with your gifts and talents?
  • What do your footprints reveal?
  • What kind of influence did you exert on earth?


Some guy in our church sent me this story not too long ago – I guess he thought it was funny.

It had something to do with rewards in heaven being related to the impact and influence we had on people while on earth –  which we’ve learned is certainly true;

A minister died and was waiting in line at the Pearly Gates.  Ahead of him was a scruffy lookin’ guy – beat up leather jacket, worn out jeans.  Peter finally comes and says to the guy, “Who are you, so that I may know your position in the Kingdom of Heaven.  The guy says, “I’m Joe Cohen, taxi-driver from New York City.”  Peter looks up his list and then smiles and says, “Oh, you're Joe . . . well, here, take this silk robe and golden staff and enter the Kingdom of Heaven.”

The taxi-driver struts into heaven with his fancy robe and solid gold staff – now it’s the minister’s turn.  Peter asks, “And who might you be?”  He says, “I am Joseph Snow, pastor of more than 40 years.”  Peter looks at his list and says, “Oh, so you’re Pastor Snow . . . well, take this cotton robe and wooden staff and go on in.”  The minister says, “Now just a minute, Peter; that man ahead of me was a taxi-driver, and he got a silk robe and golden staff – I get a cotton robe and a lousy wooden stick – I want an explanation!”  Peter said, “It’s the results:  while you preached, people slept – while he drove, people prayed!”

I didn’t think it was that funny either.

Aren’t you glad your performance review will be taken up with non other than Jesus Christ.

His evaluation will be perfect.  It won’t be prejudiced.  It can’t be wrongly motivated.  It won’t miss something important.

It will be right and verse 11 gives our response – we will bow our knee in submission to His righteous evaluation:  we will say
“You are Lord.”  We will open our mouths to praise Him at the end of our performance review for His is God.

Both holy and loving . . . awesome and personal . . . terrible and yet terribly gracious.

At that Bema Seat, the Son, the righteous Judge will make everything right!

Someone’s cheated you on earth – God will make it right up there

  • Someone’s passed you over – God will make it right
  • Someone abandoned you; someone left you for another – God will give you that reward for following Him still – He will make it right.
  • Someone’s stolen your money; someone’s stolen your good name – God will make it right.
  • Someone applauded your failure; someone rejoiced when you suffered – God will make it right.
  • Someone failed to love you; someone failed to care for you; someone failed to take up your cause – God will make it right.
  • Someone refused to encourage you; someone never cheered you on; someone hoped you’d lose in life and fail in business – but God will make it right
  • Someone’s betrayed you, someone’s physically and emotionally hurt you – God will make it right.
  • Someone’s misled you, someone mocked you; someone’s ridiculed your purity and slandered your testimony – God will make it right.
  • Someone’s convinced you’d never amount to anything; someone’s certain you aren’t worth anything - God will have something to say about that – victorious forgiven one – God will make it right.
  • You never understood why – but then God will make it clear.
  • You never could figure it out – but then God will let you see.
  • You never could get it together – but then God has made you whole.

There you are, at the Bema Seat of God – you will not be able to stop the tears until He wipes them away; you will never be able to hold back the praise – and that will continue on forever.

For every tongue shall give praise to God. 

Worthy are you – Son of God – all praise to you my righteous, gracious Judge, my Redeemer, my Lord and my King!

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Sandra Collins says:
Please provide the beginning (if we are abandoned, failed to love you.. and end God will make it right to 11/24/23, be careful little feet. These words meant so much to me-husband walked out on marriage of 37 plus years, and dropped off 150 miles from home, BUT God will make it right. Thank you for your additional transcript. I have looked tirelessly but not computer savy. Blessings to you.

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